Our Team

Staff & Board of Directors


Stephanie Grimm, BA, SBD Doula, SBD Chaplain and Midwife of Thanatology
Director of Family Services

Stephanie began volunteering with The Haven in 2014 as a family services volunteer before becoming the Director of Family Services in 2015. Prior to joining The Haven Network, Stephanie served in a variety of leadership roles including that of Early Childhood teacher, Early Childhood Center Director, and President of the Rockford MOMS Club. Stephanie holds degrees in History and Political Science from the University of Wisconsin-Whitewater and is also a certified birth and bereavement doula and SBD Chaplain. Outside of work, Stephanie spends her time with her husband and two young children and all the fun and hilarity that entails. Her middle son, Dylan, watches over his family from Heaven and is the catalyst behind Stephanie’s involvement with The Haven Network.



Kathy Pittman, AAS
Director of Photography

Kathy Pittman has been with The Haven Network since 2007.  She started as a volunteer and later developed the photography program.  She has an AAS in Marketing and Business Management.   In addition to her role at The Haven Network, Kathy also owns her own photography business, Katherine Pittman Photography.  She is actively involved at her church, First Free Rockford.  Kathy and her husband Tim have two children.



Nate Whinnery MS, LCPC, CADC: Photographer
Nate started volunteering with the Haven Network in 2016 after deciding to find ways to use his love and experience with photography in a way that would benefit others, and later became the weekend staff photographer. Nate holds a BA in Psychology, an MS in Mental Health Counseling, and is a Licenced Clinical Professional Counselor and a Certified Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselor. Nate currently manages a mental health crisis center in Rockford, and has worked with adults, teens, and families for the last 16 years. In his elusive downtime, Nate enjoys spending time with his wife and two children, playing guitar, photography, and learning how to fly pretend airplanes on his computer with hopes of someday becoming a real pilot.

Board of Directors

Jonathan Krause

Jon Krause, Board Chairman

Board Member Since: 2006

Current Occupation: Real Estate Broker, President of Gambino Realtors

What inspired you to serve on the Board of Directors: Jean Heise

Jon Krause is president and co-owner of Gambino Realtors. A Rockford resident since 1985, he remains very active in our community, serving as council president for the Blackhawk Area Council of Boy Scouts and president of his congregation, St. John Lutheran Church in Pecatonica. He and his wife, Judy, have two children.

Adriene Grzenia

Adriene Grzenia, Board Secretary

Board Member Since: 2014

Current Occupation: Assistant to the Executive Director of the Northwest Cultural Council

What inspired you to serve on the Board of Directors: Adriene and her husband lost a newborn son in 1996 and have had four miscarriages. Her heart is with those who have also incurred such sadness. Adriene would have loved to have had access to an organization such as The Haven Network at the time of her losses and serves on the Board to ensure families facing the death of their baby have access to The Haven Network and the services it provides.

Barb Beckett

Barb Beckett, board member

Board Member Since: 2013

Current Occupation: Director of Family Life Ministries and CRE at Holy Family Parish

What inspired you to serve on the Board of Directors: Barb has been involved with The Haven Network when it was still just an idea being discussed and started volunteering her time, skills and knowledge to help develop The Haven Network. Her involvement with the Elizabeth Ministry, a ministry for women of child bearing age, was a good fit for her volunteering with The Haven. Barb started volunteering her time by supplying meals to families who needed them as well as volunteering to at the annual auction benefitting The Haven. Her husband continues to do the printing of the photographs the families receive of their beloved baby.

Barb has been married for 26 years to her husband Bob, the owner of Image-N-That. Together they have three children who will all soon finish college, though one of her sons aspires to attend graduate school! Her daughter teaches high school history in Elgin and her other son is an aspiring illustrator. Barb has worked for Holy Family Parish for 15 years as the Director of Family Life Ministries, recently adding the role of Coordinator of Religious Education. She loves seeing the little ones of the parish on fire for Jesus. Her favorite saying is, “A soul united to Jesus is a living smile”.

Delinda Grindle, LCSW, board member

Board Member Since: 2018

Since 2006, Delinda Grindle has been a member of the kp counseling team, providing grief support services to area churches and schools.  She has worked in therapeutic settings with children, adolescents, adults, families, and couples in both individual and group counseling.  Delinda provides years of experience in leadership and organizational development and works off-site offering grief counseling in churches, schools and other organizations.  In 2008, Delinda developed and implemented the “Character for Success” program in the Harlem School District as part of their Student Assistance Program (SAP).  Delinda received her certification in Grief and Death Studies in 1996 and pursued her master’s degree in social work in 2012.  During her time in graduate school, Delinda partnered with Fitzgerald’s Funeral Home and Crematory, assisting in the development of their Soulprints Aftercare program.  Her philosophy in counseling is “companioning individuals in their healing journeys.”  She believes that journey involves reflecting on the physical, emotional, cognitive, social, and spiritual areas of one’s life. Delinda partnered with The Haven Network in 2016 to offer counseling services to Haven families.  When she’s not working, Delinda enjoys spending time with family, hiking, exercising, and reflecting on her awareness of God’s presence in her life.    


H. Kent Heise, AEP, CLU, ChFC, board member

Board Member Since: 2004 (co-founder)

Current Occupation: Regal Investment Advisors

For four decades Kent has developed extensive experience assisting individuals, families, owners of closely held businesses, and charitable entities, enhance and plan their financial future.  He earned the Chartered Life Underwriter (CLU) and Chartered Financial Consultant (ChFC) designations awarded by the American College in Bryn Mawr Pennsylvania.  He also earned the Accredited Estate Planner (AEP) designation awarded by the National Association of Estate Planners & Councils.

Kent is an active member of St. John Lutheran Church, a current and founding board member of The Haven Network, and an active volunteer for other organizations.  He and his wife Jean, have two adult children and six grandchildren.


Lowell Ingram, board member

Current Occupation: Treasurer, Rockford Acromatic Products

Tracy Jones, Treasurer

Board Member Since: 2017

Occupation: Attorney, Black and Jones

I am native of Rochelle, Illinois. I have a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science from Northern Illinois University and a Juris Doctorate from The John Marshall Law School. I have worked in the Rockford area as an attorney since 2006. I am the managing partner at Black & Jones, Attorneys at Law.

I am a member of the American Bar Association, Illinois State Bar Association, a board member of Workers’ Compensation Lawyers Association, and a member of Winnebago County Bar Association where I have twice held the position of chair and vice-chair of the Workers’ Compensation Section. I am a co-author of Chapter 5 in the Illinois Institute of Continuing Legal Education manual.

I am married with two children. In my free time, I enjoy reading, spending time with my family outdoors, participating in charity events, and hanging out in our old hotrods at car shows or taking our ’67 Airstream to vintage camper rallies. Who I am and what I do in this life is by the will and grace of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.

My soul glorifies the Lord and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, for he has been mindful of the humble state of His servant. Luke 1:46-47.


Mary Ahearn Larson, board member

Current Occupation:


Jimmy Smith, board member

Board Member Since: 2017
Current Occupation: Jimmy and his family own and operate the Culver’s in Winnebago
What inspired you to serve on the Board of Directors:  My wife, Nichole, and I were recipients of the Haven’s services in 2011 when we lost our daughter, Lindsey.  I think having the opportunity to be on the Board will allow me to help others receive the same great care and service that was provided to my family.
Nichole and I met in high school and have been married since 2007.  We have three small children at home who keep both of us busy when not at work.

Dr. Woolery

Jennifer Woolery, board member

Current Occupation: DMD, Woolery Dental PC

Dorothy Kreissler (in Memoriam)

Our Volunteers

Everybody can be great…because anybody can serve. You don’t have to have a college degree to serve. You don’t have to make your subject and verb agree to serve. You only need a heart full of grace. A soul generated by love”

-Martin Luther King

Family Service Volunteers

The individuals below have committed to serve as our on call Family Service Volunteers to care for families directly in the hospital following the birth of their beloved baby. To become a Family Service Volunteer they have successfully completed a training program that properly prepares them to provide high quality and compassionate care for the babies and families they meet in the hospitals.

The Haven Network is honored to have them serve on our behalf as Family Service Volunteers:


Cody Berillo

Paityn Edwards

Sally Jordan


Sandra Knabe

Ellie Kubilus

Nicole Moore


Penny VanScoy

Professional Photographer Volunteers

The individuals below have committed their time and talents as professional photographers to photograph baby and family in the hospital providing heirloom quality photographs for the family. Working side by side with the Family Service Volunteer they capture the details and beauty of the baby individually and with his or her parents and siblings, documenting priceless treasured memories for the families.

We are honored to have these photographers volunteer their time and talents:

Brittany Ayotte, Photographer

Brittany has been a volunteer photographer since 2020.  She is owner of Brittany Nichole Maternity & Spa.


Kelly Hubert,Photographer

Kelly has been a volunteer photographer since 2017.  She is the owner of Direction Photography and President of the livlife Foundation.

Jamie Scott: Photographer
Jamie has been a volunteer photographer since 2016.  She is the owner of JJ Scott Photography.
Joanna Shilling: Photographer
Joanna has been a volunteer photographer since 2020.  She is the owner of Joanna Shilling Photography.

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Jill Stirling: Photographer
Jill has been a volunteer photographer since 2017.  She is the owner of J Stirling Photography.

Tonya Vant: Photographer
Tonya has been a volunteer photographer since 2020.  She is the owner of Tonya Vant Photography.

Donation Coordinator

Sarah Jakymiw

Office Assistant

Samantha Strohfus



Volunteer Opportunities

 “Life is an opportunity to contribute love in your own way”

–Bernie Siegel

Volunteers are the heart of the programs and services we provide to families in our community. We are grateful to each person who takes time out of their day to serve at The Haven Network. Because our program relies on volunteers we are always looking for people to help out and here are a few ways one can:


A group of volunteer knitters and crocheters attended a workshop held at The Haven.

*Family Services Volunteers (training required)

*Photographers (training required)

*Office assistance

*Crafters: knitting, crocheting, paper crafters, jewelry makers, sewers

Please contact The Haven Network to find out how you can help.


Jean Heise

Jean M. Heise, President Emeritus

Jean M. Heise founded The Haven Network in 2004 with Byron C. Calhoun, MD, a pioneer in the perinatal hospice movement, and served as The Haven’s president for six years. Jean served on the board of National Lutherans for Life and for many years as Education Director of Lutherans for Life of Illinois.

Prior to her work at The Haven Network, she was on staff at the Howard Center for Family, Religion and Society, an internationally known think tank that studies family and cultural issues.  Her role at The Howard Center involved special research projects and assistance with the World Congress of Families, the largest international pro-family conferences, in Prague of the Czech Republic , Geneva , Switzerland, Mexico City and Warsaw, Poland. In June 2000, Jean lobbied on behalf of pro-family and pro-life causes at the Women’s Conference, Beijing + 5, at the United Nations Headquarters in New York City . In May 2004, she traveled to Australia , representing The Howard Center, speaking on family and life issues in Perth and Melbourne. Jean and her husband live in Rockford , Illinois.  The Heises have two married children and six grandchildren.

Dr. Calhoun

Dr. Byron C. Calhoun, MD, FACOG, FACS, MBA

Dr .Byron C. Calhoun, MD, FACOG, FACS, MBA is a 1979 Distinguished Graduate of the United States Air Force Academy and graduated from the University of Iowa Medical School with an MD in 1983. Dr Calhoun completed his residency in OB/GYN at the University of Missouri-Columbia in 1987 and finished a Fellowship in Maternal-Fetal Medicine at the Oregon Health Sciences University in 1989.  Dr Calhoun is a diplomat of the American Board of Obstetrics and Gynecology and is board certified in general Obstetrics and Gynecology as well as the sub-specialty of Maternal-Fetal Medicine. Dr Calhoun serves as Professor and Vice-Chair in the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the West Virginia University-Charleston and is involved in resident and medical student education.  He licensed in several states and continues to actively practice maternal-fetal medicine, perform diagnostic obstetrical ultrasound, and participate in prenatal diagnosis counseling.

Dr. Calhoun’s contributions to the obstetrical literature include: the The Perinatal Hospice, which attempts to provide a cogent pro-life hospice alternative to partial-birth abortion for fatal fetal anomalies, and, publication of the cost consequences of abortion and its relationship to pre-term birth.  Dr Calhoun and his wife, Kathryn, have 5 children.

Founding Committee

Dr. Byron Calhoun, MD, FACOG, FACS, MBA

Kathy Calhoun

Allan C. Carlson, PhD, The Howard Center for Family, Religion and Society

Jean M. Heise

H. Kent Heise

Rev. Karen Gerhard-Conner, M Div, Westminster Presbyterian Church

Father William R. Wentink, OSF St. Anthony Hospital

Distinguished Advisors

Claudia Aschbrenner

Michael T. Cyrs, Attorney at Law

Sue Fiduccia, Winnebago County Coroner

Delinda GrindleLCSW Grief Counselor

Melinda Hagerman

Brian J. Knabe, MD

Patricia Pitkus-Bainbridge

Kathy Way, RN, BSN